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The Aqua Social for LGBTQ+ and Friends
The Aqua Social
Founded in 2018 • 14,387 Opt-In Members of the LGBTQ+ Community
The Vibe
Dive in! We’re taking over the incredible backyard of Jack Shepler and Ben Ochs in 46236 for our annual daytime pool party! It’s an Indoor/Outdoor/Patio extravaganza with resort-level energy. Rain or shine, we are Intentionally Welcoming - you don’t have to swim, but you do have to have a great time! Come soak up the sun and the good vibes.
The Crowd & Theme
This is The Aqua Social, and we want you to bring the shade—literally! Top off your look with a Statement Sun Hat or Fedora. It’s chic, it’s cool, and it’s the perfect conversation starter. The dress code is "Poolside Chic," so wear what makes you feel fabulous, whether that’s a caftan, trunks, shorts, or a polo.
The Spread
We’ve got the perfect snacks for grazing while you groove to DJ Jackola. Enjoy crisp Cocktail Cucumbers, a fresh Fruit Bowl, and Pita Chips with Hummus. It’s light, easy, and delicious. And yes, the bar is open!
The Pour
The pitch-in is the only thing you need to bring! Since the club provides the full food spread, we ask everyone bring a $15 bottle of wine or a premium non-alcoholic drink to share. Non-drinkers are welcome too!
The Mission
Let’s Socialize in the sunshine! Partner with us to turn a pool party into a purpose party. Network with old friends and make new ones as we splash into the afternoon.
Take a peek at our extremely short Mission Statement to see how we make every voice count.
COMMUNITY MATTERS
The Diversity Wine Club is more than just a social gathering. It is a space where we grow together. We are honored to welcome Alan Witchey, CEO of Damien Center, to our Community Matters Speaker Series. You will have fifteen minutes to hear directly from a leader dedicated to holistic wellness and the health of our city.
WE GIVE BACK to ensure our community has access to vital HIV/AIDS care and prevention resources. Your presence helps keep our community healthy, safe, and thriving. Proceeds from this Event benefit our Charity Partnership with the Damien Center. Your attendance helps fuel this vital work!
Our Heartfelt Thanks
An event of this scale is only possible thanks to the dedication of our incredible team. We are fueled by the energy of nearly 40 volunteers who bring our mission to life. To everyone who gave their time and talent to make this specific event a success: Thank you.
YOUR INVITATION - SPRING HOMECOMING for LGBTQ+ and Friends
YOUR INVITATION
SPRING HOMECOMING: AN EXCLUSIVE INDOOR/OUTDOOR CELEBRATION
Saturday, April 25, 2026 | 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Join us for our 88th Event! We are the city's largest social club for LGBTQ+ and Friends. Exclusive • Invitation-Only • Purpose-Driven • Founded in 2018 • 14,387 Local Opt-In Members of the LGBTQ+ Community and Friends
Connect • Belong • Thrive • Where Sponsors Prosper & Community Matters
THE VIBE: A PRIVATE OASIS IN TRADERS POINT (46278)
Experience the beautiful, oasis-like home of Sally and Brian S. This is our first "Indoor/Outdoor" event of the year, featuring fresh air, an "Intentionally Welcoming | Wildly Inclusive" spirit, and plenty of easy, free parking directly at the home.
Urgency: Space is strictly limited due to the venue's private nature. A sell-out is expected.
First-Timer Friendly: Simply follow the laughter—you’ll fit right in whether it’s your 1st event or your 88th.
MEET YOUR HOSTS: SHAPIRO’S HOSPITALITY
Sally and Brian Shapiro, owners of the iconic Shapiro’s Delicatessen, are opening their private doors to the club for the first time! Experience their legendary hospitality as we help thank them for their years of dedicated sponsorship.
Protecting Host Privacy: To ensure the security and exclusivity of our host’s home, the exact address is never published on the web. You will receive the location details instantly in your confirmation email as soon as you reserve your spot.
EVERYONE BELONGS: SOLO GUESTS & NEW FRIENDS
Walking into a crowd can be a leap; we specialize in the "soft landing."
First-Timers: Look for our volunteers! We’ll introduce you to friendly regulars immediately. Everyone wears a name tag, so meeting new people is effortless.
Solo Guests: A huge portion of our guests arrive solo and leave with a new group of friends.
Returning Crew: Life happens—there is zero judgment here. Welcome home!
Last-Minute Plans: Spontaneity is always welcome. Tickets stay available online until the party ends, and we can easily process arrivals at the door. If a friend decides to join you at the last second, bring them along!
THEME & SWAG: ROCK YOUR DIVERSITY SPIRIT
Rock your best Pride colors, rainbow accessories, or anything that splashes the room in color! The dress code is Upscale Casual—we recommend a light layer for the evening breeze.
Early Bird Reward: The first 50 guests who arrive rocking their Pride spirit receive exclusive homecoming swag to kick off the night!
Style Rescue: Forget your colors? Our team handles the rest with a hilarious gag gift to ensure you’re part of the "sea of color" for the party.
Spirit Showdown: Bring your A-game! We’ll host a live winner-by-applause contest to crown the most spirited guest in the room.
THE RITUAL: SHAPIRO’S DELI SPREAD & PITCH-IN POURS
We are elevating the evening with a premium spread provided by Shapiro’s Delicatessen! Enjoy a full spread of:
Iconic Slider-Sized Sandwiches
Artisan Cheese & Fresh Veggie Trays
Bite-Sized Desserts
Chilled Ice Mountain Spring Water
To keep our "library of pours" and flavors diverse, we ask every guest to contribute ONE of the following to share:
A $15 bottle of wine (Traditional or NA).
A premium craft beverage (Botanical elixirs, craft sodas, or sparkling ciders).
A signature homemade dish (for you chefs out there).
A $10 charity donation at the door if you arrive empty-handed.
PURPOSE-DRIVEN IMPACT: BENEFITS DAMIEN CENTER
We are honored to host Alan Witchey, CEO of Damien Center, as our 15-minute Community Matters Speaker.
The No-Pressure Promise: No fundraising happens at the party. Leave your checkbook at home!
Your Impact: Your $10 ticket includes your donation. This event benefits the Damien Center, providing vital HIV/AIDS care and prevention in Indianapolis.
POWERED BY THE COMMUNITY
This celebration is curated by the collective energy of nearly 40 dedicated leaders and partners. Come as you are, connect with intention, and help our community thrive.
Meet the core team working behind the scenes to make this homecoming possible: